FIND JOY IN OTHERS HAPPINESS TODAY

To be able to find joy in another's joy: that is the secret of happiness. Georges Bernanos

In our search for personal happiness, it seldom occurs to us that we could share in the happiness experienced by those around us. Yet this is perhaps the greatest forms of happiness we can experience, especially if the person is someone whom we care for deeply. How would you react if a friend of yours received a promotion or got a new job that pays well, perhaps even better than your job? Would you delight in their happiness and good fortune, or would you feel bitterness and envy? What can you learn from your reactions towards the happiness of others? The pinnacle of happiness is when we can feel joy and elation because someone else did well, or received something they deserved, or experienced success, or any number of things that brings one joy in life. We do not have to let jealousy or envy sour our happiness in life. The good fortune of others can be ours too! When we can experience the happiness of others, we can add to their happiness by contributing our excitement and joy to theirs. We effectively are giving a gift to them, the gift of a caring and concerned friend who wishes to share in their life. Additionally, we are gifting ourselves with joy, love, and contentment in life--which happens to be a win-win arrangement. Today's Challenge:

Find joy in others happiness today.

What kinds of thoughts keep you from feeling joy for the good fortune of others? How can you learn to feel this joy? How can you increase your awareness of your feelings towards others? How do you feel when someone else shows sincere joy for the happiness and good fortune in your life?

For further thought:

The older you get the more you realize that it isn't about the material things, or pride or ego. It's about our hearts and who they beat for. Steve Maraboli